Jan 28
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Should I Point Out My Spouse’s Weird Quirks?

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If your spouse’s quirks bother you, should you point them out? Can you ask your spouse to change the things that irritate you? In marriage, we share a level of intimacy that can sometimes seem a bit invasive. It’s almost like living with a mirror that reflects how others perceive and receive us. Being oblivious to that can feel blissful, because we don’t have to understand or process how our quirks come across to others. Maybe your spouse is blissfully unaware of how agitated you are. They might have a habit that’s embarrassing in public, like smacking gum at dinner,…

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Jan 21
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My Spouse Let Their Appearance Go. What Can I Say?

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What happens when your spouse stops caring for their appearance as they once did? For many people, physical attractiveness is an incredibly important part of romantic relationships. Though we grow and change together over the course of marriage, we want to remain attracted to one another. When your spouse’s appearance changes, it can be distressing. Maybe you’re missing that aspect of the person you fell in love with. You might even be feeling less physically attracted to your spouse. And you might worry that this isn’t just a phase, and it will last indefinitely. Is there anything you can say…

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Jan 14
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Help! I Need My Spouse To Pay Attention When I Speak

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There’s little more frustrating than struggling to keep your spouse’s attention. You want them to listen. You need them to hear what you have to say. After all, you offer them that courtesy. Yet it seems that every time you try to tell them something important, their attention drifts. Maybe they’re chronically busy at work, or they have a lot on their mind. They could simply have a distractible personality. Either way, you find yourself increasingly annoyed — and you need something to change fast. There’s an important thing to remember: Whether your husband or wife struggles to pay attention,…

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Jan 07
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How Can I Convince My Spouse To Quit A Horrible Job?

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Can you convince your spouse to quit a terrible job? Many circumstances can create a miserable work environment. Changes in management, mistreatment, poor working conditions, and high-conflict situations can transform a once-satisfying job into a nightmare. Maybe you’ve watched this scenario unfold—and seen your spouse grow increasingly frustrated. The problem is, as bad as things are at work, your spouse won’t quit. You’ve tried everything to convince them it’s okay. All you want is to see them happier again, and in a better situation. Why would they want to stay at that job when they’re being mistreated? Fear of the…

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Dec 31
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How to Build Your New Year’s Vision Together

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The New Year is almost here! How will you work together to build your vision for the coming year? Spending time to create a New Year’s vision is invaluable, both as individuals and for you as a couple. It’s a time to review the past year, and to dream, plan, and set goals for the months ahead. In today’s article, we’re sharing tips to inspire your New Year’s planning session. Let’s dive right in. Check in on the state of your marriage, and how you want to grow. The New Year brings plenty of opportunities to review where you are…

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Dec 24
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Holiday Reflections: Building Intimacy This Christmas

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Do you want to build more intimacy in your marriage this Christmas? The holidays can be hectic and stressful. But if you act intentionally, this time of year is actually a wonderful time to build intimacy in your marriage. Not only are you taking more time for one another; you’re building lasting memories together that you’ll carry into the New Year. Looking for ideas to make the holidays merrier together? Here are 8 ways you and your spouse can create more intimacy this Christmas: 1. Have a cozy check-in. Tone down the holiday chaos with warm drinks like cocoa or…

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Dec 17
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My Spouse Swears When We Fight. How Can I Make It Stop?

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Does your spouse use profanity when you fight? Is there a way to stop it? Unfortunately, when emotions are running high, some individuals use offensive language. Maybe it’s just habit, or maybe they’re venting their frustrations. If you’re uncomfortable with swearing, though, it’s hurtful to hear those words. Offensive language is degrading to hear. If swearing has never been part of your life, it’s jarring to hear profanity from the person you love most–especially in the heat of conflict. It’s hard enough to argue with your spouse, especially if you’re newlyweds. But adding offensive language to the mix takes it…

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Dec 10
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I Feel Left Out Of My Spouse’s Career. I Want To Be Included!

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Should you be included in your spouse’s career? If you feel left out, what should you do? Is there any way you can convince them to let you in? For individuals with careers, work takes up a significant part of life. Maybe your spouse spends just as much time at work as they do at home, if not more. You might feel like their job practically owns them. If they don’t talk to you about it much, you may be feeling left out. You Want to Know Your Spouse as a Whole Person It’s natural to want to be a…

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Dec 03
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Should I Share Good News With My Spouse First?

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Let’s say you get great news, and you can’t wait to tell someone. Can you share it with family, friends, or coworkers first? Or should you wait to tell your spouse? It can be tempting to let the big news slip before you get home. But when you share your excitement with everyone else first, that puts a damper on the moment you’ll share with your spouse later. You might not realize it, but you’re giving up important memories you could be making in your marriage. Telling Everyone Else the Big News Can Dull Your Excitement Sharing good news with…

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Nov 26
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My Spouse Is Distant Lately. How Can We Reconnect?

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Has your spouse been distant from you lately? Wondering how to reconnect and reignite the spark? It’s normal to experience seasons of disconnection in marriage. But it’s also important to intentionally reconnect when you notice the drift. For some individuals, great conversations are the key to intimacy. For others, it’s more about physical connection. Let’s look at a few ways you can reignite the spark in your relationship in each scenario. If You’re Looking For Deeper Conversations… If good conversation fills your soul, it’s disconcerting when your spouse is distant. You might feel panicked; you want these conversations, and maybe…

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