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My Spouse Betrayed Me. Is It Fair to Make Them Pay?

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Is revenge justified when your spouse betrays you? Whatever happened, this betrayal was devastating to your emotional wellbeing. It affected important aspects of your life and made moving forward incredibly difficult. If your spouse hurt you that deeply, is it fair to make them pay for what they did? Shouldn’t they have to suffer, too? Betrayal is one of life’s most painful experiences. That’s especially true when it happens within a marriage. Some betrayals are easier to overcome than others. Still, they’re all painful enough to make even the kindest, most patient person want revenge. Revenge Won’t Repair Your Heart…

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Help! My Spouse Is Terminally Ill, and I’m Overwhelmed By Guilt

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If your spouse has been diagnosed with a terminal illness, the emotional toll can feel overwhelming. The prospect of losing the love of your life is unimaginable. This is an incredibly painful situation to be in. It’s common for caregivers to feel a broad range of emotions throughout their partner’s illness, including guilt. Guilt can play a significant part when your spouse is seriously ill, and you continue to be healthy. You may be processing all the future experiences your spouse won’t be able to share. Or, you might be struggling with the caregiving responsibilities that come with terminal illness….

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My Spouse is a Sports Nut! How Can I Get More Attention?

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So you’re married to a sports nut. The good news is, you’re not alone. Let’s say your spouse is deeply immersed in sports. Maybe you feel like you lose them every spring when baseball season kicks off. Or they might hyper focus on one sport after another throughout the year. If you’re not particularly interested in sports, having a sports nut spouse can leave you feeling lonely from time to time. We’re sharing some ways you can reframe their obsession, as well as some tips for taking back some of that couples time you value so much. Let’s jump in!…

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Springtime Roundup: Embrace The New Season Together

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Spring is here, bringing new opportunities to nurture your marriage. It’s a season of new growth, fresh beginnings, and hope for the future. If you’re ready to strengthen your relationship in the coming months, spring is the perfect time to start. We’ve gathered some of our favorite posts all about springtime, adventure, dating, and joy to inspire you as we move into April. Enjoy this time of year together, and make time for lighthearted fun. Ready to read more? Let’s dive in. 5 Spring Date Ideas To Enjoy With Your Sweetheart Looking for springtime date ideas? The weather is warming…

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Why Laughter Should Be Serious Business In Your Marriage

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Laughter in marriage is serious business. Life has many ups and downs. There are plenty of serious conversations to have and conflicts to resolve. Work and family obligations fill your weekly schedule, and it can be challenging to find time for fun when you’re both so busy. Injecting more humor into your relationship can help you navigate life’s seasons a little easier. We treat laughter very seriously in our marriage, and you should too. Laughing and having fun together is incredibly valuable for the long-term wellbeing of your relationship. Playful Joking and Teasing Can Be Endearing A well-timed, gentle joke…

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Help! I’m Stuck With All the Household Chores. How Do I Get Relief?

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Are you stuck doing all the household chores? Whether you’re carrying the entire load at home or just most of it, an imbalance of responsibilities can strain your marriage. When one spouse is used to coming and going without much household responsibility, that can create resentment. It can also make changing the dynamic difficult. If you’re wondering how to get your spouse on board with making changes around the house, this article is for you. We’re sharing a few simple tips to help relieve stress and create a better balance. Let’s get into it. Modern Couples, Modern Expectations Today, the…

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My Spouse Says I Always Keep Score. Who’s Right?

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What’s “fair” in marriage? Do you and your spouse keep score? We like to say that scorekeeping is for sports, not for marriage. There’s no scoreboard in your living room, and no referees calling each play. It’s just you and your spouse–and if you’re not playing on the same team, you’re headed for conflict. Do you feel like you’re carrying more than your share of the load in your marriage? If so, how can you find a better balance? Let’s talk about it. Scorekeeping Holds You Both Back Scorekeeping in marriage holds both you and your spouse back. It keeps…

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We’re Newlywed College Students. Can We Live With My Parents?

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If you’re a married couple still in college, is it okay to live with your parents or in-laws? In our experience working on a college campus, we spent time around students daily. We witnessed this scenario hundreds of times. It’s challenging to go through college together as a married couple. Finances tend to be tight when you’re both in college, so the idea of saving money by living with parents can seem appealing. When you marry before college graduation, you experience the excitement of getting married, but the financial pressure is also very real. Living rent-free is an attractive option,…

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Help! My Spouse Made a Big Decision Without Asking My Opinion

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So your spouse made a big decision without consulting you. What should you do? Maybe it was time to purchase a new vehicle or piece of furniture. Or perhaps your spouse spent money you hadn’t discussed together beforehand. Regardless of the situation, you feel left out and hurt–and you wish they had spoken with you before they made the decision. It’s normal to feel upset when your spouse makes a significant decision without you. One of the most important things we have in marriage is the ability to be included in each other’s lives. When we feel excluded or as…

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Do Opposites Really Attract?

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Is it true that when it comes to love, opposites attract? “Opposites attract” is a popular theme in movies, television, and books. Some of our favorite stories, from the classics to modern pop culture, feature romantic couples who are complete opposites. We hear and see it depicted so often, we’ve come to believe it. Actually, “opposites attract” is a common misnomer. Sometimes, it might feel as though opposites attract, but the answer to this question isn’t straightforward. There are two ways to answer it, so let’s jump right in. We’re Attracted to Shared Values First, let’s talk about shared values….

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