Sep 16
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How Can I Renegotiate Responsibilities With My Spouse?

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“We agreed on 50-50, but I don’t even get 50% from him/her! This split isn’t working for me at all.” Maybe you divided household, financial, or parenting responsibilities in a way that felt fair early in your marriage. But now, things have shifted; maybe you’re entering a new season, or you simply realized the old arrangement never worked in the first place. How do you renegotiate? We often say, “You want to be fair, or you want to be married,” because life isn’t fair, and neither is marriage. Scorekeeping is for sports, not for your relationship. When we get preoccupied…

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Sep 09
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My Spouse Never Disciplines the Kids – Now I’m the Bad Guy

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As a parent, are you always stuck being the “bad guy”? Discipline is something that requires both of you to be on the same page. If you’re out of sync on how to discipline the kids, it can be incredibly frustrating. Maybe you get stuck being the disciplinarian every time, while your spouse gets to be the “good guy.” It can start to feel like they’re always one point ahead of you. You do what’s best for the kids in the moment because you know you have to, even if it’s not pleasant. Still, you find yourself clashing with your…

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Sep 02
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Help! We Agreed Not to Have Kids, But My Spouse Changed Their Mind

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Choosing to be parents—or not to be—is one of the most important decisions you and your spouse will ever make. But what happens when you’ve reached a decision together… and one of you changes your mind? If you and your spouse agreed not to have kids, but they’ve had a change of heart, what should you do? Maybe you entered into your marriage with a deep conviction that you never wanted kids. You were both on the same page, and you felt fortunate to have found someone who had a similar outlook on the future. It’s rare to share that…

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Aug 26
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My Spouse Wants a Divorce, But I Want Another Chance

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“I’m not happy in this marriage anymore. I want a divorce.” One of the most painful experiences a person can have in life is learning that their spouse wants a divorce. No one marries with this ending in mind. We often enter marriage with overflowing optimism and hope for the future. Maybe your spouse has expressed a desire to end the marriage, but you want another chance to revive it. Is there anything you can do to breathe life back into this relationship? Should you try to change their mind, or is it time to let go? It Takes Two…

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Aug 19
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My Spouse Was Abused As A Child. How Can I Help?

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Did your spouse experience abuse in childhood? Does that impact your marriage today? Every childhood comes with baggage; some worse than others. No matter how good your home life was growing up, you likely still came away with issues of some kind. Nobody escapes that; it’s a typical human experience. However, growing up in a home where abuse was a regular occurrence is not so typical. If your spouse grew up in a home where they were abused, you have some serious healing ahead. Trauma—whether that’s from physical, verbal, or sexual abuse—can impact your life for years to come. Childhood…

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Aug 12
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I Love to Cuddle, But My Spouse Always Wants More. Help!

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“I just want to cuddle more – no strings attached!” Does this sound familiar? Maybe you crave more physical touch like hugs or holding hands… without heading to the bedroom. The problem is, your spouse has other ideas. How can you get that need met without making them feel rejected? Sexuality is just one of many ways spouses can connect. It shouldn’t be the only time you touch, and all forms of touch aren’t meant to lead to sex. Instead, balance is necessary to ensure you and your spouse are both getting (and giving) what you need. Human Touch is…

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Aug 05
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My Spouse Has A Drinking Problem. What Now?

By Marriage, Self Reflection 2 Comments

See if this sounds familiar: Your spouse has been drinking more and more often, and it has nagged at you for a while now. They often seem stressed, and the drinking is worse on hard days. You’ve started to notice a shift in their behavior, and they’re hungover more often than they used to be. Now, you worry that their drinking could affect their ability to work and go about their daily routine. These days, their favorite pastime seems to be drinking on evenings and weekends, and the trend is beyond concerning. Maybe you’ve tried to talk to them about…

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Jul 29
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My Spouse Says I Talk to My Friends Too Much. What Should I Do?

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“Were you on FaceTime with them again?!” You need deep friendships, good conversation, and enriching interactions in your life. The problem is, your spouse says you spend too much time talking to your friends. So when you find yourselves at odds about where you each invest your time, what should you do? Maybe your spouse has criticized the amount of time you spend with friends. Perhaps they’ve questioned why you talk to them so often on the phone or over texts. Friendships are an essential and enriching part of life, so it’s important to you that your spouse understands and…

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Jul 22
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Help! I Need More Privacy Than My Spouse Wants to Give

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Do you crave more privacy than you get in your marriage? This is a common issue for married couples, especially those with personality differences. For instance, if you’re an introvert and your spouse is extroverted, where’s the middle ground? How can you get the privacy you need without hurting their feelings in the process? Every human being has their own “bubble.” We may not be fully aware of ours until after living in close proximity to someone else, such as a roommate or a spouse. While you may have enjoyed sharing space with your spouse during the honeymoon phase, you…

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Jul 15
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My Spouse is a Sore Loser. I’m Tired of Competing!

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Shared activities are a great opportunity to bond with your spouse, enjoy time together, and deepen your relationship. But what happens when your spouse is highly competitive? If your husband or wife tends to be a “sore loser,” how do you navigate that? Most people love winning, but not everyone is highly competitive. For a competitive personality, winning is the whole point of the game. It’s not fun for them unless their fellow players are locked in fierce competition. They love the thrill of going after that win and (proverbially) fighting it out till the end. Some competitive individuals have…

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