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Intimacy

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Can You Like Your Spouse Without Being in Love With Them?

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“I like my spouse. I’m just not sure I’m in love with them anymore.” Have you ever questioned how deeply you love your spouse? You like them as a person, and you have love for them. It’s still fulfilling and enjoyable to spend time together. But sometimes, you question whether you’re still “in love.” If you’re feeling this way, you’re not alone. Many couples experience ebbs and flows in their emotions over time. Our feelings can shift with life circumstances and major changes. Let’s talk about what can cause feelings to change, and how to navigate these tricky emotions. When…

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Help, My Spouse is Always So Distant!

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Every afternoon, you arrive home from work excited to see your spouse and share your day with her. You get home about an hour before she does, so you routinely start dinner. That way, there will be plenty of time to connect and catch up while you share a meal. The problem is, your spouse gets home and collapses on the couch. She switches on the TV and zones out. Rather than sharing dinner together, you end up eating it in front of your favorite show. This might be fine once in a while, if only you didn’t feel so…

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Help! My Spouse Is Attracted To Someone Else

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“Honey, if I die first, who would you want to marry?” “If we hadn’t married, who would you have ended up with?” “Do you find anyone else attractive? Who?” Every couple has moments and conversations they’d rather take back. Discussing the possibility of being with someone else in the future can create tremendous insecurity and anxiety. That’s true even if the conversation wasn’t entirely serious. Some thoughts are best left unspoken, and can’t be taken back once they’re said. Knowing your spouse could be attracted to someone else is painful and upsetting, even in the most secure relationships. If you…

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Holiday Reflections: Building Intimacy This Christmas

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Do you want to build more intimacy in your marriage this Christmas? The holidays can be hectic and stressful. But if you act intentionally, this time of year is actually a wonderful time to build intimacy in your marriage. Not only are you taking more time for one another; you’re building lasting memories together that you’ll carry into the New Year. Looking for ideas to make the holidays merrier together? Here are 8 ways you and your spouse can create more intimacy this Christmas: 1. Have a cozy check-in. Tone down the holiday chaos with warm drinks like cocoa or…

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My Spouse Is Distant Lately. How Can We Reconnect?

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Has your spouse been distant from you lately? Wondering how to reconnect and reignite the spark? It’s normal to experience seasons of disconnection in marriage. But it’s also important to intentionally reconnect when you notice the drift. For some individuals, great conversations are the key to intimacy. For others, it’s more about physical connection. Let’s look at a few ways you can reignite the spark in your relationship in each scenario. If You’re Looking For Deeper Conversations… If good conversation fills your soul, it’s disconcerting when your spouse is distant. You might feel panicked; you want these conversations, and maybe…

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How to Ignite Passion in the Second Half of Marriage

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The second half of marriage is an amazing time in a couple’s life. Many couples find themselves financially secure, with older teenagers or adult children who have moved out. There’s more free time to spend together, along with plenty of opportunities to reconnect and reignite the spark you felt in your early days together. Research tells us that the second half of marriage is the most fulfilling time for committed couples. During the later half of marriage, many couples’ satisfaction begins to rise so high that social scientists no longer have instruments to measure their happiness. We talk about this…

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Does Less Intimacy Mean Our Marriage is Unhealthy?

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Does having sex less often mean your marriage is in trouble? A married couple’s sex life is often a pretty good barometer for how things are going in their relationship as a whole. Intimacy, passion, and commitment are all important and crucial ingredients for a fulfilling married life and lifelong love. Still, there are times throughout your life when sex will happen less often than you’d like for it to, and that doesn’t necessarily mean your relationship is any less healthy. There are a few factors that can impact how often you and your spouse are intimate. Together, you can…

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How to Enjoy One Another More This Summer

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Summer is in full swing, and this time of year is perfect for nurturing your relationship with your spouse. Whether you’re going on a bucket list vacation or spending time closer to home, you can absolutely boost your enjoyment of one another. This summer could pay dividends in the months and years ahead. Ready to enjoy one another more through the summer months and beyond? This post is for you. Let’s get right into it. Make a List of Things You Like About Your Partner One of the most practical exercises we’ve seen for improving your level of enjoyment together…

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My Spouse Tells Everyone My Secrets. What Can I Do?

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Does your spouse spill your secrets? It’s upsetting when someone tells your secrets to friends and family. And when your spouse does the telling, that hurts even more. We want to be able to trust the person we marry with our vulnerabilities, fears, and deepest secrets. So what can you do when your spouse breaks confidence? Is there any way to rebuild trust in your marriage? Let’s talk about it. Spilled Secrets Feel Like Betrayal Let’s say you opened up to your spouse about a sensitive subject—one you’ve been reluctant to discuss. You finally worked up the courage to bring…

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How Much Alone Time Is Healthy In Our Marriage?

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How much alone time is healthy in a marriage? Is it possible to spend too much time alone? If so, what does that mean for your relationship? Being alone, as well as together, can be healthy for your individual wellbeing. When we’re healthy individuals, we bring that wellness into our marriage. Yet there’s often a misconception that spending time alone is unhealthy. That’s not always true. Every marriage experiences different seasons, ebbs, and flows. Spending time alone doesn’t necessarily mean your marriage is unhealthy. Rather, it’s up to you and your spouse to agree on how much alone time works…

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