My husband has more sexual experience than me.
I always wonder if I measure up. HELP!
Having a spouse who engaged in sexual activity with someone other than you prior to your marriage can create anxiety, discomfort, and distance in your relationship. Likewise, past sexual experiences with individuals other than your spouse can generate guilt, shame, and a toxic environment in your marriage. In this video, Drs. Les and Leslie talk about the importance of leaving the past behind and creating an intimate marriage based in the here and now where both spouses can thrive.
If your spouse is more sexually experienced than you are, how have you left the past behind and created present-moment intimacy in your marriage? And, if you’re the more experienced spouse, how have you helped your partner feel more secure and confident? Share your comments below.