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Intimacy

Dec 24
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Holiday Reflections: Building Intimacy This Christmas

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Do you want to build more intimacy in your marriage this Christmas? The holidays can be hectic and stressful. But if you act intentionally, this time of year is actually a wonderful time to build intimacy in your marriage. Not only are you taking more time for one another; you’re building lasting memories together that you’ll carry into the New Year. Looking for ideas to make the holidays merrier together? Here are 8 ways you and your spouse can create more intimacy this Christmas: 1. Have a cozy check-in. Tone down the holiday chaos with warm drinks like cocoa or…

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Nov 26
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My Spouse Is Distant Lately. How Can We Reconnect?

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Has your spouse been distant from you lately? Wondering how to reconnect and reignite the spark? It’s normal to experience seasons of disconnection in marriage. But it’s also important to intentionally reconnect when you notice the drift. For some individuals, great conversations are the key to intimacy. For others, it’s more about physical connection. Let’s look at a few ways you can reignite the spark in your relationship in each scenario. If You’re Looking For Deeper Conversations… If good conversation fills your soul, it’s disconcerting when your spouse is distant. You might feel panicked; you want these conversations, and maybe…

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Oct 01
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How to Ignite Passion in the Second Half of Marriage

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The second half of marriage is an amazing time in a couple’s life. Many couples find themselves financially secure, with older teenagers or adult children who have moved out. There’s more free time to spend together, along with plenty of opportunities to reconnect and reignite the spark you felt in your early days together. Research tells us that the second half of marriage is the most fulfilling time for committed couples. During the later half of marriage, many couples’ satisfaction begins to rise so high that social scientists no longer have instruments to measure their happiness. We talk about this…

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Jul 16
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Does Less Intimacy Mean Our Marriage is Unhealthy?

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Does having sex less often mean your marriage is in trouble? A married couple’s sex life is often a pretty good barometer for how things are going in their relationship as a whole. Intimacy, passion, and commitment are all important and crucial ingredients for a fulfilling married life and lifelong love. Still, there are times throughout your life when sex will happen less often than you’d like for it to, and that doesn’t necessarily mean your relationship is any less healthy. There are a few factors that can impact how often you and your spouse are intimate. Together, you can…

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Jul 09
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How to Enjoy One Another More This Summer

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Summer is in full swing, and this time of year is perfect for nurturing your relationship with your spouse. Whether you’re going on a bucket list vacation or spending time closer to home, you can absolutely boost your enjoyment of one another. This summer could pay dividends in the months and years ahead. Ready to enjoy one another more through the summer months and beyond? This post is for you. Let’s get right into it. Make a List of Things You Like About Your Partner One of the most practical exercises we’ve seen for improving your level of enjoyment together…

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May 21
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My Spouse Tells Everyone My Secrets. What Can I Do?

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Does your spouse spill your secrets? It’s upsetting when someone tells your secrets to friends and family. And when your spouse does the telling, that hurts even more. We want to be able to trust the person we marry with our vulnerabilities, fears, and deepest secrets. So what can you do when your spouse breaks confidence? Is there any way to rebuild trust in your marriage? Let’s talk about it. Spilled Secrets Feel Like Betrayal Let’s say you opened up to your spouse about a sensitive subject—one you’ve been reluctant to discuss. You finally worked up the courage to bring…

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Apr 30
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How Much Alone Time Is Healthy In Our Marriage?

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How much alone time is healthy in a marriage? Is it possible to spend too much time alone? If so, what does that mean for your relationship? Being alone, as well as together, can be healthy for your individual wellbeing. When we’re healthy individuals, we bring that wellness into our marriage. Yet there’s often a misconception that spending time alone is unhealthy. That’s not always true. Every marriage experiences different seasons, ebbs, and flows. Spending time alone doesn’t necessarily mean your marriage is unhealthy. Rather, it’s up to you and your spouse to agree on how much alone time works…

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Apr 09
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He Wants Sex More Often Than I Do. Whose Needs Matter Most?

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If your spouse wants sex more often than you do, whose needs matter the most? Desire for intimacy varies from person to person, and it’s not unusual for spouses to have different sex drives. Still, many couples find it challenging to agree on how often to be intimate. Life is demanding, and making time for intimacy often falls to the bottom of the to-do list. As a couple, you might be wondering how to decide on sex from one day to the next. Maybe you want to make yourself more available to your spouse. Perhaps your spouse wants to honor…

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Nov 06
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Should We Stay Together for the Kids?

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If you’re unhappy in your marriage, should you stay together for the kids? Marital satisfaction ebbs and flows over the course of a lifetime. It’s common for spouses to go through seasons where they don’t feel as close to one another–or might even feel like roommates. Many couples with children who experience these dry seasons find themselves wondering whether they should stay together for the kids’ sake. Are you experiencing a season of distance from one another? Do your kids feel like the only thing you have in common right now? If that sounds familiar, there’s hope. Refocus on Your…

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Sep 11
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My Spouse Cheated, and I Want To Know Why. Is That Too Much to Ask?

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If your spouse has ever cheated, then you know how gut-wrenching infidelity is. You might also know how hard it can be to get your spouse to tell you why they had an affair. In these situations, hearing, “I don’t know why it happened,” is nothing short of frustrating. If you don’t know why an affair happened, is it possible to move forward in your marriage? And is it too much to ask your spouse what led to this? Let’s talk about it. Your Spouse Might Not Deeply Understand Their Affair First, understand that your spouse might not grasp all…

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